I gave up on going out trying to pick up chicks. I am tired of getting ignored by girls, got some good feedback and some really bad ones...
I know it takes practice, but girls these days are shallow or gold digger, I don't want them anyway
a "8" or above girl tend to ignore me
anything below is half greeted back, or give me no expression
all I did was "*smile* how are you doing" or "*smile* my name is Tommy"
At summer time I went to this chinese temple (I am asian) we had this thing that really tells you what you have done in the past and should do in the future. It was really true, I had gotten the piece of letter says about love.
in short, it means I should wait for it, rushing for it won't work. And it's been 4 months of trying, not working. God just wants me to wait.
I guess I'm not ready for a girlfriend anyway, hell I only had one in my life and it didn't last more than a month.
From now on, I will focus on myself, hobbies, and school (starting in January.)
This is what I really mean
I know it takes practice, but girls these days are shallow or gold digger, I don't want them anyway
a "8" or above girl tend to ignore me
anything below is half greeted back, or give me no expression
all I did was "*smile* how are you doing" or "*smile* my name is Tommy"
At summer time I went to this chinese temple (I am asian) we had this thing that really tells you what you have done in the past and should do in the future. It was really true, I had gotten the piece of letter says about love.
in short, it means I should wait for it, rushing for it won't work. And it's been 4 months of trying, not working. God just wants me to wait.
I guess I'm not ready for a girlfriend anyway, hell I only had one in my life and it didn't last more than a month.
From now on, I will focus on myself, hobbies, and school (starting in January.)
This is what I really mean
Originally posted by Wyldfire
He's not really "calling it quits". He's going to focus on himself, which is just what he should be doing. If he does that and reaches his own personal goals for himself then it will build his confidence and he will be a happier person. My guess would be that's part of his problem...he doesn't feel he's the best he can be and that he hasn't reached his full potential as a person. Typically, what happens is that when you focus on yourself and improve your own life and build a complete person...finding members of the opposite sex to spend time with or get involved with just sort of comes along on it's own. The guys on here should spend more time improving themselves and defining who they are as a person than they do seeking the company of others to fulfil them.
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