"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Whenever I'm in class and talk to a girl or girls in general..the rest of the class watches me run techniques and overall game sporadically on various girls. People just like listen in on my conversation. Does this mean that I need to shut up?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't know why, but I think your black, so everyone assumes you have game and want to learn...Make a joke out of those fvckers and def dont shut up.
 

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Perhaps he's the only black man in the room and they are afraid he might steal something.

(Humor folks):box: (Pow Pow)
 

i am me

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theyre intimidated (in a good way) or they think u talk too much. either way, shouldnt be too hard to tell. as long as wut ur doin is working then dont change much
 

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its definatly a good thing. Think about the kind of people you may have at some point 'listened in' on, its because you somehow valued what they had to say and wanted to hear it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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One of the greatest social proof tactics involves people who are eavesdropping. Catch them and be friendly, incorporate them into your conversations. AMOG them gently so you can defuse them as obstacles, but still keep them around as friends or social proof otherwise.

Example:
You're talking to some girl next to you in class, and a few guys are listening in.
To the girl: You should say Hi to those guys, they seem like they're really interested in our conversation.
(You've just AMOGed the other guys by immediately telegraphing their needy/interested status. In addition, you have incorporated them into your conversation, so you have the opportunity to use them to show DHVs)

-Damian
 

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On a more serious note it could be a good or bad thing.

I know quite a few kids who are extremely loud and annoying, when they open their mouth we usually stare at them so they know to shut up after they tell their first joke that only they laugh at.

But it could also be a good thing. Although I kind of doubt they'd make it so obvious they are trying to pick up tips from you though.
 

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if people ever tell you "shutup no one likes you" or "you talk too much", theres a good shot that you should shutup cause no one likes you and you talk too much.
 

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No it means they have no game and wanan see how you do it. Once i macked some girl in front of some fat dude and i know he was listening to everything...that was when i wasnt as good as i am now.
 

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yeah if you dont get people saying stuff like that to you, you've probably reached a state of alpha maledom
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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no one says sh*t. They just turn around and listen to what I have to say.
 

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r u black? lol i am, myspace.com/sbloodz
 

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E_ze05 said:
r u black? lol i am, myspace.com/sbloodz
i bet you like g unit huh?
 
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