You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
thewarrior said:This is a BIG problem for me. When girls ask me questions, I'm a little too up-front. I noticed players give BS answers to almost every question a girl asks. How long does this go on? Can I start being more real after the second date or what?
thewarrior said:Can I start being more real after the second date or what?
Be real on the first encounter.Freeman said:What do you mean by BS answers? Give some examples.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I think you misunderstood what I was referring too-I was asking warrior what is the particular situation that HE is in that is preplexing him-I aint got the best game but what you talking about, although true, is no new game to me- I was asking warrior about his situation for an elaborationRyoku said:Be real on the first encounter.
Playful bs-ing should be a character quality you posses. If you have to be FAKE then a chick will usually see through it.
But if you're genuine in your silliness then she won't really care until its time to be serious.
There are a billion ways to answer - "What do you do for a living?"
"I'm a secret agent, but don't tell any one."
"I was just hired by the club to stand here and look good."
"The President."
"Yes."
It depends on YOUR character, you need to stop DOING man. And start being. Stop trying to learn, just be.
She would be amazing, I'd keep her. Most chicks don't do humor but they appreciate it.thewarrior said:Couple more questions, should this joking only be done during the first conversation? Wouldn't it be inappropriate on a first date? How would you feel if you ask a chick serious questions and she kept joking around?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This is seriously a great point that I think more people need to be made aware of.DonGorgon said:Women dont want straight answers.. they want emotional pules and pushes... which is why they will often ask you silly questions on purpose.. Women are not stimulated by logic .. they are turned on my fascinating romantic musings and tales of great passion.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.