"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i noe ****y& funny but what's "keep away"?

antidonjuan

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heard of the "keep away" term several times before on this forum and I can't get any additional tactical information on it.

What is it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hmmm.....the only thing I can think of is taking something of hers, and "making her" get it back from you....thus getting lots of kino in, and being fun and playful and a challenge at the same time.
 

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oh that's what girls do to me if they are interested in me, they are actually applying this technique upon me! it seems like they are leading me and how should i respond to their tactics? Or should I just let them do it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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antidonjuan said:
oh that's what girls do to me if they are interested in me, they are actually applying this technique upon me! it seems like they are leading me and how should i respond to their tactics? Or should I just let them do it?
I think most people don't see the stuff we talk on here as "tactics".
It's all natural if we just let go of our fears and have fun.
I was kinoing, negging, keeping away, and some other stuff before i came on this site and learned the terms for them.

to answer ur question, just let them do it. They do it cause they're already interested and want your attention.
 
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