"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i noe ****y& funny but what's "keep away"?

antidonjuan

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heard of the "keep away" term several times before on this forum and I can't get any additional tactical information on it.

What is it?
 

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hmmm.....the only thing I can think of is taking something of hers, and "making her" get it back from you....thus getting lots of kino in, and being fun and playful and a challenge at the same time.
 

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oh that's what girls do to me if they are interested in me, they are actually applying this technique upon me! it seems like they are leading me and how should i respond to their tactics? Or should I just let them do it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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antidonjuan said:
oh that's what girls do to me if they are interested in me, they are actually applying this technique upon me! it seems like they are leading me and how should i respond to their tactics? Or should I just let them do it?
I think most people don't see the stuff we talk on here as "tactics".
It's all natural if we just let go of our fears and have fun.
I was kinoing, negging, keeping away, and some other stuff before i came on this site and learned the terms for them.

to answer ur question, just let them do it. They do it cause they're already interested and want your attention.
 
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