Tha Realnezz
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^Why do you assume you have to chase them?And what do you define as "chasing"?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I never chase women.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
For me, I assume I have to chase because it is the proactive thing to do. Without chasing, or moving, I would get nowhere. The american dream is built around chasing. Most chase their own tails, but that is beside the point.Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
^Why do you assume you have to chase them?And what do you define as "chasing"?
I define chasing as seeing and seducing. I see far more women out there than I could handle if they introduced themselves to me. So I play my role as a hunter and actively experience the world instead of letting the world confront me and do the introducing.
The world responds to my advances.
Tha Realnezz
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You don't want rejection and you damn sure don't want girls who put out then go crazy within a week ...or do you?
That's why the system i have been using is the best way to approach things.
Selective approaches>>Shotgunning.
It filters out the bs'ers and the non-intersted saving you a whole lot of time and giving you a nice,steady rotation of mostly hassle-free women.
The trick is to focus on the look.
That's why the system i have been using is the best way to approach things.
Selective approaches>>Shotgunning.
It filters out the bs'ers and the non-intersted saving you a whole lot of time and giving you a nice,steady rotation of mostly hassle-free women.
The trick is to focus on the look.
Ol'BlueEyes
Senior Don Juan
Up to this point I've never attracted women (at least none I would like to attract). What other choice do I have but to approach as many women as possible? It's not like there's a parade of available HB's trouping around wherever I go.Why do you assume you have to chase them?And what do you define as "chasing"?
Once I learn how to demonstate VALUE, then I don't think approaching will be a problem. Right now I don't have that down.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
its just a different level of the "chase"
you are a fvcking man, a hunter. You hunt, you chase.
but setting up a good trap and waiting for the prey to fall in is still hunting.
you are a fvcking man, a hunter. You hunt, you chase.
but setting up a good trap and waiting for the prey to fall in is still hunting.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
No rejection? Man, do the bootcamp. Rejection is a good thing, I see where your philosophy comes into play, but you can attain the same degree of success when you force rejection.Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
You don't want rejection and you damn sure don't want girls who put out then go crazy within a week ...or do you?
After a while following DJ clues you can get some girls to go crazy for you, because they can tell you just want them to reject you... That's something that has to be taught. Deep down it's hard to teach, on the surface even to me my words mangle the possibilities.
Crazy girls are amazing too, I guess some people just aren't prepared to taste the fruits of life...
Mr_knowit_all
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Originally posted by Egoist
its just a different level of the "chase"
you are a fvcking man, a hunter. You hunt, you chase.
but setting up a good trap and waiting for the prey to fall in is still hunting.
You're my favorite cologne
Imagine that you could get all girls that you want. That is what most of us guys dream about. You cant achieve this by approaching just the girls that are attracted to you before your approach.
Although I don't agree with not chasing women I tend to go just for girls that show interest. You cant call this a seduction it's more like not scaring the girl of because she already likes you and you know that.
If you want to be great then you should be able to attract all girls regardless if they like you or not in the initial phase.
You just have to approach if you want to improve your game or if you look bad and girls don't have interest in your looks.
Although I don't agree with not chasing women I tend to go just for girls that show interest. You cant call this a seduction it's more like not scaring the girl of because she already likes you and you know that.
If you want to be great then you should be able to attract all girls regardless if they like you or not in the initial phase.
You just have to approach if you want to improve your game or if you look bad and girls don't have interest in your looks.
satyriasis
Don Juan
i agree with what he is saying. only thing i disagree with is solely relying on b.l. from women.
if your attracted to her, go make the approach. rejection is guaranteed.
if your attracted to her, go make the approach. rejection is guaranteed.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Tha Realnezz
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Having balls to approach hot women doesn't prove a damn thing.
Those guys on Jackass and wildboys take greate physical risks each and every episode,right?But does that make them athletes?
Hell no.
So why would you assume that approaching (and consequently getting rejected) alot of women makes you a better dj than therest?
It's the style of approach,the quality of the women, the success rate that makes you a player not the amount.
Quality>Quantity.
The goal is not to get rejected,guys.Common sense.
Those guys on Jackass and wildboys take greate physical risks each and every episode,right?But does that make them athletes?
Hell no.
So why would you assume that approaching (and consequently getting rejected) alot of women makes you a better dj than therest?
It's the style of approach,the quality of the women, the success rate that makes you a player not the amount.
Quality>Quantity.
The goal is not to get rejected,guys.Common sense.
Tha Realnezz
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Originally posted by Egoist
its just a different level of the "chase"
you are a fvcking man, a hunter. You hunt, you chase.
but setting up a good trap and waiting for the prey to fall in is still hunting.
It's not the same thing.Screw the analogy.
Approaching random women and praying to god you don't say somnething stupid as you run game isn't quite the same as approaching women that arleady steamy or that have even already approached you.
Nowhere near the same thing.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by Mr_knowit_all
You're my favorite cologne
:cheer:
Egoist
Master Don Juan
wrong, but ok.Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
It's not the same thing.Screw the analogy.
Approaching random women and praying to god you don't say somnething stupid as you run game isn't quite the same as approaching women that arleady steamy or that have even already approached you.
Nowhere near the same thing.
you are significantly limiting yourself.
Tha Realnezz
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^How?
If you know how to interpret signals then you would know that i'm not limiting myself at all.
Difference here is attraction..I get plenty of signals...I guess by where this thread is going most ss'ers don't?
If you know how to interpret signals then you would know that i'm not limiting myself at all.
Difference here is attraction..I get plenty of signals...I guess by where this thread is going most ss'ers don't?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
satyriasis
Don Juan
i see what your saying, but you really are limiting yourself...this method can still be as affective if you do approach...all your really saying is you don't approach and don't chase...you can approach, create attraction, and still have them chase...i also rely on the way you do it, but am not going to lie to my own testosterone in chicks am attracted to and want to get at.