"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This year i'm in a new school, much larger than my last one and I've been doing some good work, becoming popular etc...
Last thursday this girl from my school (i have never talked to her) she's not from my class, asked to follow me on instagram and i followed back, then she liked my last pic and i liked one of her back and after that she liked other two pics.
She is obviously insterested i guess.
My question is should i start a conversation with her on instagram or should i first talk to her in person?
She's pretty hot btw
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hello my friend, how are you, the truth is i had the same problem like you and i found a pdf guide helped me to resolve this problem, i will share you right here: http://bit.ly/1RFjLG4
 

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"Hello"
"Hi"
"Blah blah blah"
"Blah blah blah"
"Catch u in school"

Honestly, you can do about anything as this chick is interested in you. Heck you can open like that - Hey, I am blah. I really loved that pic of yours. And take on from there. Get to know her

That's my take. Intermediate and Advanced guys know better.
 
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