I'm kicking myself in the ass right now. So there was this girl I would run into on my way to work. We would make small talk and she would always show interest. But why was I hesitating to ask her out? She kind of had a beak nose. It really isn't that bad, so I decided to ask her out the next time I see her...which was today. Did I ask her out? No...because I didn't like the way she was dressed...WTF is wrong with me?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I need to stop looking for perfection.
- Thread starter Berlex
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I used to do this too. I got way too picky and crossed everyone off my list for minor appearance flaws. I don't do that as much anymore, unless she has a personality issue then its done lol.
I think with time you'll come full about and start giving yourself a little more freedom in appearance. I think its part of the internalization of the alpha male, selectiveness, knowing what you want state of minds.... after it gets in your head and is stuck there it will loosen up a bit.
As for the girl... just throw your preference to the wind and say 'Okay I might not like the way she looks, but its for my experience to ask her number or for a date.'
I think with time you'll come full about and start giving yourself a little more freedom in appearance. I think its part of the internalization of the alpha male, selectiveness, knowing what you want state of minds.... after it gets in your head and is stuck there it will loosen up a bit.
As for the girl... just throw your preference to the wind and say 'Okay I might not like the way she looks, but its for my experience to ask her number or for a date.'
WC2
Master Don Juan
I always have said, lay the foundation then get picky. In other words, make sure you can be picky before you are that picky.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Good advice. But if you aren't attracted to the woman, is it even worth it (beak nose and all)?WC2 said:I always have said, lay the foundation then get picky. In other words, make sure you can be picky before you are that picky.
Good news: I ran into the girl again the other day, I asked her out and got her number! Bad news: During the date I find out she has a boyfriend...why couldn't she just say she had a boyfriend instead of giving me her number? Lady, I don't want to go out with you if you have a boyfriend...oh well. I don't think I'll next her competely, maybe she has some good looking female friends.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Last Man Standing
Banned
- Joined
- Mar 18, 2006
- Messages
- 3,956
- Reaction score
- 37
Two scenarios here:Berlex said:Good news: I ran into the girl again the other day, I asked her out and got her number! Bad news: During the date I find out she has a boyfriend...why couldn't she just say she had a boyfriend instead of giving me her number? Lady, I don't want to go out with you if you have a boyfriend...oh well. I don't think I'll next her competely, maybe she has some good looking female friends.
1. She does not have a b/f but said she did so that you won't call her again - she doesn't like you!
2. She has a b/f and as most hors do - she won't leave him until she finds another pimp - nonetheless - she doesn't like you!
Both have the same outcome - she rejected you for whatever reason!
It's number 2, she has a b/f...I did some stalking on facebook. Though it just said she's in a "relationship," I'm in a "relationship" with Brook Burke on facebook so I guess it could be 1.Last Man Standing said:Two scenarios here:
1. She does not have a b/f but said she did so that you won't call her again - she doesn't like you!
2. She has a b/f and as most hors do - she won't leave him until she finds another pimp - nonetheless - she doesn't like you!
Both have the same outcome - she rejected you for whatever reason!
Last edited: