"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I need to Motivate myself help me

TorturedSoul

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I look good but I wanna look even better like one day I can lift weights all day but others its like, no I dont fell like it so I wait a week to lift weights again and I know this cant be good I want the body of a god! a six pack and all that good stuff. and I dont do my other excersizes either so I need to Motivate myself"

so the question is how do all of you Motivate Yourself into excersizeing?????? please share with me



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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DIESEL

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grab a picture of someone you want to look like and put it on the wall near your bed so it's the first thing you see when you wake up and the last thing you see when you wake up.

Also get another picture of that same person and put it on your fridge just so when you get the cravings you know what's up.

other than that.. you've just got to convince yourself that you really fukkin want it and don't quit till you get there.

If this game was easy, everyone who lifted would look a bit like the young Schwarzenegger

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xyzzy

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You say you dont feel like it and sometimes skip a week.

Dude, theres been tons of times Ive gone into the gym feeling like crap. Sometimes I put in only %60 but I do it anyway. Its better than nothing, and I still always come out feeling pumped up and better for it.

At times for me, the hardest part is when you start talking yourself out of going to the gym. I dont feel like it. Its raining outside. blah blah blah. But once you start driving there/get inside the gym you forget about it, right? Everybody else is doing their thing and you get right too it. Its just that speed bump between thinking about it and doing it.

So Ive realized this part of myself and just grab my gym bag and go. Instead of thinking about this great body I want and putting pressure on myself about it, I just dont think about it. Its just another habit, like showering in the morning or like having to go to work. Its just something that I have scheduled in the day.
 

sonick182

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Iunno, at first i wasn't too enthusiastic about working out, but then i started doing it regularly, and saw some gains, that was some motivation for me.

However, the few days after working out just give me a confidence boost, i feel great right after a workout, and the couple days after. Iunno what, its just like kind of an addiction. I try to go every week, or else i think im gonna feel like sh*t for the rest of the week. My motivation is trying to not feel like sh*t.
 

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Think of all of the rewards that you will savor. Off the charts self-esteem, pride in your hard work and discipline. Not to mention lots of admiration. Either MAKE your mind control your body or your body will alway tell your mind that it's too tired or doesn't feel like it.

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GOD: HERE YOU ARE
DARKPOWER: WHAT DO I DO WITH THIS AUTHORITY
GOD: BE THE BEST THAT YOU CAN POSSIBLY THINK OR DREAM. AND AFTER THAT BE EVEN BETTER
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ricardo

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Also bring music with you! I like playing tunes on my MP3/CD player, but will soon get one of those Nike units you can strap on the arm so I can run with it!

Music pumps you up for an even better workout.
 

TorturedSoul

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thanks for the tips guys they are helping me out big time

Ricardo I like your tip yes I useully listen to music as well dont like working out with totol quietness

but I dont really like runing stupid people beebs horns and or say stupid **** whale im runing in public

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The pain of Regret is far worse then the pain of Rejection.
 

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Try to run on trails because you don't have to worry about cars and it's less stressful on your joints.
 

2N Turbo

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Make sure you eat good and get 8 hrs of sleep so you don't feel tired. Read the guide to bulking by Diesel. Once you see results then that there is enought to keep you going. I'm hooked.
 

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Those of us hardcore lifters lift not because we want to, because we have to.

If I go without the gym for 2 or more days, I invariably end up punching a hole in the wall, or getting worked up and aggressive very easily. I gotta get the debbil outta me.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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