I need to make some statements for myself - who's in?

[TheGambino]

Today is 25/9

Let's make myself some rules to stick by, anyone can join in and signature with a reply.

At this point.

Lost a plate, she was serious with me, she saw too many snaps with other girls and knows my ex. Blocked me everywhere, I don't care, she doesn't like to svck and didn't clean her sh1t in my appartment when she left. Red flag.

Lost another plate, HB6, but loves cex. Same thing, asks to be exclusive with me. Doesn't want me to fvck around anymore, saw too many snaps. She's so sweet, can't keep her in my orbit, I told her it's better to be stop.

New plate is in my orbit, fvcked yesterday. Puppy love kind of thing, stayed the night over. Ofc no strings attached from my side. Welcome to my orbit. HB7, blonde, 4 years older, her child died in her stomach, her bf was a drug dealer and she is damaged for real. Keeping her around for cex, and going out.

Plate HB6.5, 6 years younger then me, im her third guy and she isn't experienced. She shows some mad behavior. I flaked like 3 times on her because of better options, I need to take this broad out before she loses interest.

Old oneitis is out of my orbit, deleted everywhere.

Dated two more girls, one got my number since thursday, she didn't reach out yet.
Other sends me texts and snaps all day(was on a double date, her friend is even hotter) Both are very hot, I pin a date with the one that shows interest soon.

Plate HB7 with a kid, had cex 3 times, flaked on her yesterday, was too tired.

Probably lost the HB9 psycholigist, feminist. Asked her out for a second date, dinner date. She never replied.

Got some on the backburner too who would probably go out aswell.

Now important for me, some rules:

I want to become shredded again.

I need to eat cleaner, way cleaner and cut down alcohol. I smoke a lot of cigarettes too, that's a problem aswell.

Im focussing on my last year of university, that's going well until now. I do my homework and studies.

Yesterday I had great cex with the older plate for the first time. Couldn't come with penetrating, probably jerked off too much lately.

I spend too much money on going out, new rule. I go out ONCE a week, only exception is a plate that reaches out that I want to fvck badly. Not going out to big cities anymore, way too expensive. Friday I spent 60 euros but I got a lot for it back though with old oneitis and her friend. The new plate in my orbit, high status footage on snapchat and a lot of girls and boys I know saw me with them.

So to cut it down straight, and i am going to live by this.

Focus on study, first priority, nothing is more important. Checking back in one week.

Focus on clean food, only clean food, I got a belly, with muscles, I need to get lean. Started today with eating more clean and less to lose some bf %.

No fap challenge TODAY, doing this seriousley, I need to be able to cvm in any girl, I had to jerk off yesterday with the girl.

Less smoking, I fvcked well but years ago I could do the same for hours, now I lose my breath pretty quick.

Live on a budget.

I will reply for myself underneath this thread how things go.

 

[marmel75]

Dude...be honest with yourself...

your oneitis wasn't in your orbit, you were obsessed with her and in her orbit.

 

[TheGambino]

Dude...be honest with yourself...

your oneitis wasn't in your orbit, you were obsessed with her and in her orbit.

Yeah, case closed though.

 

[Desdinova]

I smoke a lot of cigarettes too, that's a problem aswell.

I quit smoking 11 years ago when someone on here suggested the book "Allen Carr's Easyway to Stop Smoking". Bought it, read it, been smoke-free ever since. Pretty amazing since I absolutely loved smoking. I lost my dad earlier this year to a smoking-related disease. He suffered a long-ass time from it. Dude was always busy, strong like a fvcking bull, and it was sad to see him wither into someone who couldn't walk from the bathroom to the kitchen without gasping for air as if he had run from a psychotic gunman.

Focus on clean food, only clean food,

Yeah, I gotta get back to that. I'm just wrapping up my move to the country and have been eating out a ton solely because of convenience. I also injured myself at work and haven't been as active, and have been focusing on recovery instead. I need to drop 10 lbs.

 

[TheGambino]

Everything is going well.

Finances are way better, good terms at school to get my degree this year.
Losing some bf every week, working out and eating as clean as possible.

Yesterday I had the second date with my blonde HB7.5 plate.
She was more relaxed, even more open and more talkative that date 1. More positive aswell.

She is submissive to me and respects me. She apologizes if I don't agree with her, she talks in my favor, follows my opinion on things and loves the alpha guy that takes the lead and gets her on her toes in the bed.

Went over to hers and we talked for hours. Fvcked and stayed over, bailed in the morning.

Need to focus on other women though, I got many and they are not reaching out. Need to put out some bait again so I dont lose my plates.

 

[RangerMIke]

I'm spending too much money on women. I don;t spend a lot of money on any one date, I go out WAY too much.... I need to trim back the number of chicks I see. Maybe just keep 3 and not worry about trying to find more chicks until one drops off. I also need some work with my approach. I need to learn how to turn it off. I am attracting AWAY too many married chicks.

I know why it's happening.... it's the way I am. I never would do anything with them, but they text the fvck out of me always trying to spend time with me (lunch, coffee, etc.), and there is a couple of husbands that give me this 'I'm going to kill you" look. I'm getting tired of that.

I also need to dial back on the younger chicks. My daughters are 13 now, and they are noticing that some of the women I date are in their early 20s, and they talk about it with friends and of course parents... I really don't care about busy bodies but it bugs me that it's effecting my kids.

 

[TheGambino]

I need to get back on track.

Lost a plate, I pregnated her but it was outside of her uterus, im lucky.

Though I drunk a lot of alcohol twice this week and was kind of down due everything.

Gained fat this week, some fast food, 3 days of heavily drinking, gained fat and lost muscle.

Im going to the gym in a bit, finance are poor too due study.

Always stay positive though Ill get true it.