"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I need to know advice please on how to develop game and attraction.

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Like on OKCupid I try msging girl one I liked and I ask her question in her profile saying about food you like shes like haha yeah definitley. Then I say yeah I am sure you like it and said you heard of a certain place? and they ignore me and so I am trying to figure out what is good initial opener and conversate because what I hear is girls dont want you just to ask them questions like interview so How do you get them interested in you into wanting to see you?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dude those girls on that site get 1000 messages a day. Girls pretty much reply based off looks alone. I would just do some witty like

Me + You + Coffee = Best 20 mins of your life..up until that point.
Let's meet at X this Friday, I'm good for either 6 or 7pm.

If there interested they will reply
 
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Dating sites are OK so long as you stay rational about them.........the decent looking women will get hammered with tons of emails, in fact, I've often felt that many on those sites are just there to get messages..........it's an ego boost, they have no intention of meeting anyone.
 
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