"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I need to know advice please on how to develop game and attraction.

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Like on OKCupid I try msging girl one I liked and I ask her question in her profile saying about food you like shes like haha yeah definitley. Then I say yeah I am sure you like it and said you heard of a certain place? and they ignore me and so I am trying to figure out what is good initial opener and conversate because what I hear is girls dont want you just to ask them questions like interview so How do you get them interested in you into wanting to see you?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dude those girls on that site get 1000 messages a day. Girls pretty much reply based off looks alone. I would just do some witty like

Me + You + Coffee = Best 20 mins of your life..up until that point.
Let's meet at X this Friday, I'm good for either 6 or 7pm.

If there interested they will reply
 
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Dating sites are OK so long as you stay rational about them.........the decent looking women will get hammered with tons of emails, in fact, I've often felt that many on those sites are just there to get messages..........it's an ego boost, they have no intention of meeting anyone.
 
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