"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

i need to help this girl. BUT HOW??

Dragon Angel X2

New Member
Joined
May 31, 2005
Messages
2
Reaction score
0
Age
37
i seriously dunno how to help her. shes REALLY depressed and stuff and i dunno what to say. i wont see her for a week because we both have summer school and i got her aim s/n. shes depressed about not having a b/f and some guy was playing with her mind. any advice is welcome on what to say to help her feel better. anything i can do.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Bling

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 16, 2005
Messages
879
Reaction score
26
Location
Davie, FL
you have to, why?


and honestly, she needs to learn how to play with the cards shes delt. Not everyone has great genetics.
 

B-Lemond

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 9, 2005
Messages
1,007
Reaction score
10
Location
On The Road to Self-Improvement
I wouldn't try to help a girl whose like that. Too much trouble. But for your answer...make her feel GOOD if not GREAT. Acting like an AFC for a little bit might help out too. Just show her the happy things in life.
Hope it helps.
 

gravstar

Don Juan
Joined
May 6, 2005
Messages
157
Reaction score
1
Location
Oztralia
don't become an emotional tampon and get too attached to her problems you'll just make it worse. just give her some time and only a bit of support. she'll come through.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

coolguy676767

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 27, 2005
Messages
300
Reaction score
0
Invite her to come hang out with you and a couple guys as a fun friends thing, do this a little bit to show you may like her but your busy with things and your other friends, while still cheering her up. But man dont become an AFC with this chick for too long, before you know it with girls like this, you will think she really lieks you and then BAM, one day she is like yeah I got a new boyfriend.
 

t00dumb

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 19, 2005
Messages
127
Reaction score
2
Age
51
Location
Miami
Originally posted by coolguy676767
Invite her to come hang out with you and a couple guys as a fun friends thing, do this a little bit to show you may like her but your busy with things and your other friends, while still cheering her up. But man dont become an AFC with this chick for too long, before you know it with girls like this, you will think she really lieks you and then BAM, one day she is like yeah I got a new boyfriend.
exactly what happened to me! ahh what a small world!!
 
Top