"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i need to help this girl. BUT HOW??

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i seriously dunno how to help her. shes REALLY depressed and stuff and i dunno what to say. i wont see her for a week because we both have summer school and i got her aim s/n. shes depressed about not having a b/f and some guy was playing with her mind. any advice is welcome on what to say to help her feel better. anything i can do.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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you have to, why?


and honestly, she needs to learn how to play with the cards shes delt. Not everyone has great genetics.
 
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I wouldn't try to help a girl whose like that. Too much trouble. But for your answer...make her feel GOOD if not GREAT. Acting like an AFC for a little bit might help out too. Just show her the happy things in life.
Hope it helps.
 
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don't become an emotional tampon and get too attached to her problems you'll just make it worse. just give her some time and only a bit of support. she'll come through.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Invite her to come hang out with you and a couple guys as a fun friends thing, do this a little bit to show you may like her but your busy with things and your other friends, while still cheering her up. But man dont become an AFC with this chick for too long, before you know it with girls like this, you will think she really lieks you and then BAM, one day she is like yeah I got a new boyfriend.
 
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Originally posted by coolguy676767
Invite her to come hang out with you and a couple guys as a fun friends thing, do this a little bit to show you may like her but your busy with things and your other friends, while still cheering her up. But man dont become an AFC with this chick for too long, before you know it with girls like this, you will think she really lieks you and then BAM, one day she is like yeah I got a new boyfriend.
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exactly what happened to me! ahh what a small world!!
 
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