“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I Need to Help a Friend...

Ganji

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So I have this friend I'm trying to get him out of his shell. He's pretty short (5'8 o 5'9) but he's pretty built and somewhat tan and he's only had three girlfriends.

He's been on the slouch for the better part of a year (We're in highschool) and I need to be a GREAT wingman because while he can talk a big game, he doesn't do anything when the time comes.

So how do I do this? I'm not supposed ot formally hook him up and if I casually introduce him to a female friend he'll shy away.

My first thoughts were to get him good and drunk, knock out his insecurities with a bottle, and then introduce some (drunk) girls to him, but this is more a temporary band-aid rather than a solution. :nono:

So what should I do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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penkitten

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start with the bandaid, then teach him about cofindence. he will learn as he goes.
 

LordGrin

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well, wat many guys do JUST in the begining to get rid of their social anxiety is get drunk and then run into sober chiks and try gaming them. i'd recomend that u make him talk to sober HBs because he'll only feel comfortable arnd drunk chiks if he starts off only talkin to drunk 1z. anyways, keep us posted
 

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Start by posting in the right forum.
 
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