"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I Need to Help a Friend...

Ganji

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So I have this friend I'm trying to get him out of his shell. He's pretty short (5'8 o 5'9) but he's pretty built and somewhat tan and he's only had three girlfriends.

He's been on the slouch for the better part of a year (We're in highschool) and I need to be a GREAT wingman because while he can talk a big game, he doesn't do anything when the time comes.

So how do I do this? I'm not supposed ot formally hook him up and if I casually introduce him to a female friend he'll shy away.

My first thoughts were to get him good and drunk, knock out his insecurities with a bottle, and then introduce some (drunk) girls to him, but this is more a temporary band-aid rather than a solution. :nono:

So what should I do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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penkitten

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start with the bandaid, then teach him about cofindence. he will learn as he goes.
 

LordGrin

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well, wat many guys do JUST in the begining to get rid of their social anxiety is get drunk and then run into sober chiks and try gaming them. i'd recomend that u make him talk to sober HBs because he'll only feel comfortable arnd drunk chiks if he starts off only talkin to drunk 1z. anyways, keep us posted
 

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Start by posting in the right forum.
 
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