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I Need to Help a Friend...

Ganji

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So I have this friend I'm trying to get him out of his shell. He's pretty short (5'8 o 5'9) but he's pretty built and somewhat tan and he's only had three girlfriends.

He's been on the slouch for the better part of a year (We're in highschool) and I need to be a GREAT wingman because while he can talk a big game, he doesn't do anything when the time comes.

So how do I do this? I'm not supposed ot formally hook him up and if I casually introduce him to a female friend he'll shy away.

My first thoughts were to get him good and drunk, knock out his insecurities with a bottle, and then introduce some (drunk) girls to him, but this is more a temporary band-aid rather than a solution. :nono:

So what should I do?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

penkitten

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start with the bandaid, then teach him about cofindence. he will learn as he goes.
 

LordGrin

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well, wat many guys do JUST in the begining to get rid of their social anxiety is get drunk and then run into sober chiks and try gaming them. i'd recomend that u make him talk to sober HBs because he'll only feel comfortable arnd drunk chiks if he starts off only talkin to drunk 1z. anyways, keep us posted
 

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Start by posting in the right forum.
 
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