"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I need to be more sociable

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I'm naturally not that sociable of a guy. Not really because I am shy or anything, just because I like to listen more than I like to talk. I like absorbing information rather then spewing it out. Now, this is my downfall when it comes to women and just meeting other people in general. Sure I know pretty much everyone in my classes, but not on a level that I would actually call them up on the weekend and ask if they want to hang out.

So basically, I want to know: How can I be more social? An example, there's this nice girl that sits behind me in precal first thing in the morning. I'm not really too attracted to her, probably wouldn't want to persue a relationship with her, but it would be nice to talk to her a little more often. What can I say?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Alright, that seems like something sensible to say. Now, that wouldn't matter that I don't really know her THAT well right? I mean, that's the point right, come out strong?
 
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ARrocket said:
"Hey what's up? How was your weekend? I hope you didn't miss me TOO much ;) "
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Well if he hasn't talked to her I don't think the last part of that would suite too well. She'd just be like who the hell is this guy?

You have to make yourself known first, in my opinion anyways...
You'll get a more friendlier response like
"haha Of course!"
and you just be like ":nono: now now settle down, don't get too horny :p "
 
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just play the game like you would with any other girl. its pretty much a cold approach, which could be harder since your in school with her. you could use the CF thing, or just plain out make an observation about her. all you gotta do is take 3 deep breaths before you see her, tell yourself you got the situation under control and just talk and SMILE alot (but not like you got wood)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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man, Ill go deep but short, its a state thing, Im a naturally introverted person but I can be extremely outgoign when im in a social mood, get outside your head and the probs will be gone
 
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