"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I need to be more sociable

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I'm naturally not that sociable of a guy. Not really because I am shy or anything, just because I like to listen more than I like to talk. I like absorbing information rather then spewing it out. Now, this is my downfall when it comes to women and just meeting other people in general. Sure I know pretty much everyone in my classes, but not on a level that I would actually call them up on the weekend and ask if they want to hang out.

So basically, I want to know: How can I be more social? An example, there's this nice girl that sits behind me in precal first thing in the morning. I'm not really too attracted to her, probably wouldn't want to persue a relationship with her, but it would be nice to talk to her a little more often. What can I say?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alright, that seems like something sensible to say. Now, that wouldn't matter that I don't really know her THAT well right? I mean, that's the point right, come out strong?
 
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ARrocket said:
"Hey what's up? How was your weekend? I hope you didn't miss me TOO much ;) "
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Well if he hasn't talked to her I don't think the last part of that would suite too well. She'd just be like who the hell is this guy?

You have to make yourself known first, in my opinion anyways...
You'll get a more friendlier response like
"haha Of course!"
and you just be like ":nono: now now settle down, don't get too horny :p "
 
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just play the game like you would with any other girl. its pretty much a cold approach, which could be harder since your in school with her. you could use the CF thing, or just plain out make an observation about her. all you gotta do is take 3 deep breaths before you see her, tell yourself you got the situation under control and just talk and SMILE alot (but not like you got wood)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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man, Ill go deep but short, its a state thing, Im a naturally introverted person but I can be extremely outgoign when im in a social mood, get outside your head and the probs will be gone
 
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