"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i need sum help big time..please

inlikapimp

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ok..ill try to make this simple...ive been goin out with a girl for about a month..for a little back story..her dad died when she was young and her moms really strict and yells and curses alot ..her mom also has a boyfriend...okay....my parents are really strict too...and i dont wanna tell my parents about her cause theyd basically stress me out until i break up with her...cause theyd get involved...her mom is strict but less strict than mine...like her mom wouldnt care if she had a boyfriend unless he treated her wrong...and she keeps gettin mad at me cause i wont tell my parents about her..i told her i'd be rbeakin up with her if i did..but she won't believe me...also ive been a real bad boyfriend...first week we went out...for valentines day i bought her a card..nothin else..birthday comes along..i was broke ..so i bought her nothin..(lol damn..yeah i know)..and yesterday was our one month anniversary..still got nothin...what do i do to make sure she dont get uninterested in me..i wanna pull sumthin, like some sorta mind game...i mean ill work out seein her after school inventually..but for rite now i feel like im losin her even though im in love with her and she says shes in love with me..we drive eachother nuts...and also lol umm after movin to florida two years ago..i kinda got this bad tan that wont go away...(for 2 yrs)..anyone know how to make my original skin color come back lol...thanks in advance
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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also..the first few weeks we been goin out...we been talkin real...umm..sexual like..and she would get so like shy and be like "ohhh , if u'd do that that would be geaaaaaaaat"...but now after sayin it alot...its like more of a "..yeahh...okay"..i wanna spice **** up again..how...(yeah i havnt screwed her yet}
 

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Why must you present your gf to your parents? what is the point? I think you should assert yourself as a man and stop behaving like a sissy and tell your gf to just forget about that. Be the man in the relationship don't let her be giving you orders.

Originally posted by inlikapimp
and also lol umm after movin to florida two years ago..i kinda got this bad tan that wont go away...(for 2 yrs)..anyone know how to make my original skin color come back lol...thanks in advance
ha! I went to Mexico when I was little and I got sunburn and tan and 10+ years later it still hasn't come back to my original skin color.
 

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tell her that shes with you not with your family...they shouldnt matter at all
 

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MAN UP!

Dude tell her who is boss! Show her whats up?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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