"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i need sum help big time..please

inlikapimp

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ok..ill try to make this simple...ive been goin out with a girl for about a month..for a little back story..her dad died when she was young and her moms really strict and yells and curses alot ..her mom also has a boyfriend...okay....my parents are really strict too...and i dont wanna tell my parents about her cause theyd basically stress me out until i break up with her...cause theyd get involved...her mom is strict but less strict than mine...like her mom wouldnt care if she had a boyfriend unless he treated her wrong...and she keeps gettin mad at me cause i wont tell my parents about her..i told her i'd be rbeakin up with her if i did..but she won't believe me...also ive been a real bad boyfriend...first week we went out...for valentines day i bought her a card..nothin else..birthday comes along..i was broke ..so i bought her nothin..(lol damn..yeah i know)..and yesterday was our one month anniversary..still got nothin...what do i do to make sure she dont get uninterested in me..i wanna pull sumthin, like some sorta mind game...i mean ill work out seein her after school inventually..but for rite now i feel like im losin her even though im in love with her and she says shes in love with me..we drive eachother nuts...and also lol umm after movin to florida two years ago..i kinda got this bad tan that wont go away...(for 2 yrs)..anyone know how to make my original skin color come back lol...thanks in advance
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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inlikapimp

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also..the first few weeks we been goin out...we been talkin real...umm..sexual like..and she would get so like shy and be like "ohhh , if u'd do that that would be geaaaaaaaat"...but now after sayin it alot...its like more of a "..yeahh...okay"..i wanna spice **** up again..how...(yeah i havnt screwed her yet}
 

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Why must you present your gf to your parents? what is the point? I think you should assert yourself as a man and stop behaving like a sissy and tell your gf to just forget about that. Be the man in the relationship don't let her be giving you orders.

Originally posted by inlikapimp
and also lol umm after movin to florida two years ago..i kinda got this bad tan that wont go away...(for 2 yrs)..anyone know how to make my original skin color come back lol...thanks in advance
ha! I went to Mexico when I was little and I got sunburn and tan and 10+ years later it still hasn't come back to my original skin color.
 

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tell her that shes with you not with your family...they shouldnt matter at all
 

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MAN UP!

Dude tell her who is boss! Show her whats up?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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