Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I need some wisdom/advice regardling College Life

KaJaMo

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Ok, Let me start it off...

I'm going to be a Junior in college in a month and a half. I have an amazing apartment lined up to live in, amazing social conections(i'm in a Frat). The school I go to is in downtown of a major city. I have a fake ID and an get into most bars(since i'm not 21).

Basically, I have a world of opportunity that many people don't. My question is how do I make the most of it? What shoudl I focus myself on and how should I act?

I have saved up around $2,000 to buy a whole new wardrobe, haircut, tan etc before I go back to school.

I have been working out for most of the summer, and this next month I will be on a greuling workout/diet regime to get that super cut body.

I've set myself up rpetty well for the next year and I don't want to f*ck it up.
What kind of clothes shoudl I buy?

Is tehre any wisom you guys wish you ahd done while you were in College that you didnt realize it until you graduated?

How should I look at life and girls? Should I settle down.. or just bang as many as possible?

Any and ALL input is highly appreciated,

Kajamo.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bonhomme

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Way too early to settle down. Sample the goods, and discover what you want. In more ways than just women.

It wasn't until I got a good bit older that I came to realize just how young one is when in college before 21. You will change ... a lot.
 

wjh

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You know what advice I needed when I was in College?

Get the best grades you possibly can and make as many career-oriented connections as you can.

Don't lose perspective over snatch.

I'm not saying don't have fun, but be responsible. I remember having the social network, girls, booze, drugs etc. in my freshman/sophomore years. My grades plummeted as a result. I managed it poorly and have regretted it since. Don't do the same.
 
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