"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I need some wisdom/advice regardling College Life

KaJaMo

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Ok, Let me start it off...

I'm going to be a Junior in college in a month and a half. I have an amazing apartment lined up to live in, amazing social conections(i'm in a Frat). The school I go to is in downtown of a major city. I have a fake ID and an get into most bars(since i'm not 21).

Basically, I have a world of opportunity that many people don't. My question is how do I make the most of it? What shoudl I focus myself on and how should I act?

I have saved up around $2,000 to buy a whole new wardrobe, haircut, tan etc before I go back to school.

I have been working out for most of the summer, and this next month I will be on a greuling workout/diet regime to get that super cut body.

I've set myself up rpetty well for the next year and I don't want to f*ck it up.
What kind of clothes shoudl I buy?

Is tehre any wisom you guys wish you ahd done while you were in College that you didnt realize it until you graduated?

How should I look at life and girls? Should I settle down.. or just bang as many as possible?

Any and ALL input is highly appreciated,

Kajamo.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bonhomme

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Way too early to settle down. Sample the goods, and discover what you want. In more ways than just women.

It wasn't until I got a good bit older that I came to realize just how young one is when in college before 21. You will change ... a lot.
 

wjh

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You know what advice I needed when I was in College?

Get the best grades you possibly can and make as many career-oriented connections as you can.

Don't lose perspective over snatch.

I'm not saying don't have fun, but be responsible. I remember having the social network, girls, booze, drugs etc. in my freshman/sophomore years. My grades plummeted as a result. I managed it poorly and have regretted it since. Don't do the same.
 
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