yeah well its been awhile. I need some help right now tho. I havent talked to my ex in a long time been doin pretty good about it, this gir ldoesnt deserve my forgiveness in a 100 years. But i feel this urge to email her, and ask her how its going, but i know i shouldnt.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Why shouldn't you? If you're over her, you could become real close friends with her and it wouldn't even phase you. But then exes are rarely that simple to handle. If you can't treat her as just another person that you know, you shouldn't be trying to communicate with her like just another person you know.
If what she did was so bad that you wouldn't forgive her in a thousand years, why in the world would you want to email her and ask her "how she's doing"??? This doesn't make sense. If it's just an urge, well, urges pass. Do something else to make yourself forget about her.
your right bro it doesnt make a whole lot of sense. But shes first girl i ever loved, and the emotions are lingering and lingering. And i almost have this urge to make her see the success ive been getting so far in my life in a sorta personal revenge almost..Originally posted by italostud
If what she did was so bad that you wouldn't forgive her in a thousand years, why in the world would you want to email her and ask her "how she's doing"??? This doesn't make sense. If it's just an urge, well, urges pass. Do something else to make yourself forget about her.
don`t do it....And i almost have this urge to make her see the success ive been getting so far in my life in a sorta personal revenge almost..
if your personal growth and success has really become so big, then you are not in need to show it to anybody...
not to your ex, not to anybody...
that just would be bragging and bragging is something only losers do...
winners simply cut persons like her out of their lives and live their own wonderful lives...
all the best, joe
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DO NOT give in to that urge. It probably wouldn't even work in the first place. Second, if she sees right through you, and confronts you about contacting her only because you still have feelings for her and she starts pushing all those buttons of yours, you're most definitely gonna feel like a loser. Even if she doesn't push your buttons, it ain't worth it to act like a loser.Originally posted by Swede54
And i almost have this urge to make her see the success ive been getting so far in my life in a sorta personal revenge almost..