I just got back home from a date with this good looking girl and need some info from you guys. While we sat in the movie, the girl was constantly talking out loud "is that the guy who?" "oh, is he the one that" "what happened". This girl was starting to get on my nerves when all of a sudden, her cell phone rings and after letting it ring loudly 4 times she answers it. She has a full conversation with her friend and while she is doing so, I'm trying to sink into my seat because it was so embarassing. After her second full length conversation, 3 people in the back and one next to me all tell us to be quite us at once. I raised my hand to acknowledge them as I knew the ***** was too loud and she looks at me and says "you're supposed to stick up for me, that was ****ed up", and i said that she was being a bit loud and should try to quiet down. My question to you is should I have done anything to stick up for her? if so, what? Everyone was in the right to shsh us because she was so damn loud. Also, how can I ask her out without her thinking that I'm not going to stick up for her. I have no feelings toward this girland she has no manners or home training but I really want to bang her . What Should I do and what should I have done? what do i say when i call her. your help would be appreciated.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I need some help
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
You should have left this loud biatch alone and walked out!!!! Or taken the phone from her and smashed it!!!!
The nerve of this ho to tell you that you should have sided with her for doing wrong!! This hor is going to get you killed!!! Stay away from this ill-mannered girl!!!
The nerve of this ho to tell you that you should have sided with her for doing wrong!! This hor is going to get you killed!!! Stay away from this ill-mannered girl!!!
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Life-Trainee
Master Don Juan
I get easily mad at people who make unnecessarily extended use of a cellphone when in my company. It's very rude. In your case I would either told her to shut up or like PRL said, walk out.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
I get pissed off for a girl answering the phone in my presence outside on the street let alone in a movie theatre. I would have taken the phone away and turned it off! If she made a scene, I would have left her there alone and not talk to her again - I have little tolerance for rude behavior - why would I want to keep company with such a woman?
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
Dude! just how horny are you??
This b!tch is VERY high maintence! She's already trying to get you to jump through hoops by getting you to support her rude behavior. Who does she think she is? She's lucky I wasn't sitting behind her, I'd have smacked her silly!
DUMP the girl, fast and final. Think about it, if she's this rude in public, how rude is she going to be in bed?
This b!tch is VERY high maintence! She's already trying to get you to jump through hoops by getting you to support her rude behavior. Who does she think she is? She's lucky I wasn't sitting behind her, I'd have smacked her silly!
DUMP the girl, fast and final. Think about it, if she's this rude in public, how rude is she going to be in bed?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.