"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I need some Help

Gustav Yavo

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Hey everyone, so heres the case. My best friend's sister happens to be really hot, with a great personality to boot. I went out with my best friend and some of his friends (girls and guys) and his sis came along. We immediately hit it off, we started talking a little bit, and danced for quite a while (nothing too x rated, just some light grinding) now typically when i meet a girl and we sorta hit it off at a club, make out then thats it, we go our seperate ways, but i was afraid to **** up my friendship with her and my best bud. A week later however we all met up at some chicks house to just chill, drink and watch some movies. Well me and this girl got pretty drunk, and we got all touchy (she was sleeping on me, rubbing my chest, jumping in my lap) and we both were just laughing at the stupid **** we were saying. She kept on eye ****ing me but we never had a moment alone, and i wasnt gonna make out with my friends sis right in front of him.
Two days pass, and she begins texting me, we started messaging each other on facebook, but all of it is small talk. She said that if there was another snow day (which there was recently, for those of you who dont get snow it basically just means theres so much snow that school gets cancelled, along with some workers ECT) that i should come over, but that snow day didnt come today. Im seeing her this saturday, we are all going out again.

Now im just wondering if it seems that there is something there? should i go for her? If you do suggest i go for her, what are the next steps i should take?

Btw, we just had small convo about how she hates how most people are fake, and then she said "and a good boyfriend is impossible to find". is she hinting at anything? how should i answer back to a comment like that?

thanks guys
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How should i answer when she says "a good boyfriend is hard to find"?
 

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If your still friends with your X's then what's the problem? The way I see it. If you date her. You'll have a great time, your best friend (if he really sees himself as your best friend) may be iffy at first but later on be fine with it. So date her, if it doesn't work out then thats ok. But if your really worried about your best friend. Ask him. What could it hurt?
 

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Well see he brought it up one time, sayin that i spend alot of time talkin to his sis, and he said "i dont care what happens as long as your respectful"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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K she answered back "no for some sad reason i just adore asssholes. I cant even spot a good guy". what should i respond ? should i reply "clearly, or obviously you cant" or is that too forward?
 
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