"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hey everyone, so heres the case. My best friend's sister happens to be really hot, with a great personality to boot. I went out with my best friend and some of his friends (girls and guys) and his sis came along. We immediately hit it off, we started talking a little bit, and danced for quite a while (nothing too x rated, just some light grinding) now typically when i meet a girl and we sorta hit it off at a club, make out then thats it, we go our seperate ways, but i was afraid to **** up my friendship with her and my best bud. A week later however we all met up at some chicks house to just chill, drink and watch some movies. Well me and this girl got pretty drunk, and we got all touchy (she was sleeping on me, rubbing my chest, jumping in my lap) and we both were just laughing at the stupid **** we were saying. She kept on eye ****ing me but we never had a moment alone, and i wasnt gonna make out with my friends sis right in front of him.
Two days pass, and she begins texting me, we started messaging each other on facebook, but all of it is small talk. She said that if there was another snow day (which there was recently, for those of you who dont get snow it basically just means theres so much snow that school gets cancelled, along with some workers ECT) that i should come over, but that snow day didnt come today. Im seeing her this saturday, we are all going out again.

Now im just wondering if it seems that there is something there? should i go for her? If you do suggest i go for her, what are the next steps i should take?

Btw, we just had small convo about how she hates how most people are fake, and then she said "and a good boyfriend is impossible to find". is she hinting at anything? how should i answer back to a comment like that?

thanks guys
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How should i answer when she says "a good boyfriend is hard to find"?
 
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If your still friends with your X's then what's the problem? The way I see it. If you date her. You'll have a great time, your best friend (if he really sees himself as your best friend) may be iffy at first but later on be fine with it. So date her, if it doesn't work out then thats ok. But if your really worried about your best friend. Ask him. What could it hurt?
 
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Well see he brought it up one time, sayin that i spend alot of time talkin to his sis, and he said "i dont care what happens as long as your respectful"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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K she answered back "no for some sad reason i just adore asssholes. I cant even spot a good guy". what should i respond ? should i reply "clearly, or obviously you cant" or is that too forward?
 
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