"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I need some help... I think?

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Dustin

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Alright so a couple weeks ago I was tryingto hook up with this chick so I invited her to come chill with me for the day and she did then after her and a few of here friends came over and hung out in my hot tub. Now it get's complicated all threw the hot tbu she was playing footsy's and stuff with me and everything seemed to be going right. She was sending me some good vibes and atuff. Now when I was talkign to her later on like the ent day she had no interest in me what so ever. and I have no clue why, Could I get some pointers. One of her friends likes me bu didn't like me then so thatcouldn't be it. I have no clue how these girls function. :confused:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Damian

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It's all about timing man. Think about it this way, a train won't wait for you to decide whether or not to get on, and neither will a woman. When she was in the hot tub with you, she was making advances. You should have taken those IOI's and made your moves. Later when you tried to talk to her, the train had already left the station. Next time, jump on the bandwagon while it's still in reach.

-Damian
 
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