"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I need some help... I think?

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Dustin

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Alright so a couple weeks ago I was tryingto hook up with this chick so I invited her to come chill with me for the day and she did then after her and a few of here friends came over and hung out in my hot tub. Now it get's complicated all threw the hot tbu she was playing footsy's and stuff with me and everything seemed to be going right. She was sending me some good vibes and atuff. Now when I was talkign to her later on like the ent day she had no interest in me what so ever. and I have no clue why, Could I get some pointers. One of her friends likes me bu didn't like me then so thatcouldn't be it. I have no clue how these girls function. :confused:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Damian

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It's all about timing man. Think about it this way, a train won't wait for you to decide whether or not to get on, and neither will a woman. When she was in the hot tub with you, she was making advances. You should have taken those IOI's and made your moves. Later when you tried to talk to her, the train had already left the station. Next time, jump on the bandwagon while it's still in reach.

-Damian
 
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