Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I Need Some Experts Help.....HUGE!!!

cadilacone

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Here's the situation. There is this one HB10, well she just got a LTR(4 years), and now she's pretty all over the guys. She seems to love being single, and is flirting a ton and hanging out with tons of guys. She has a thing with one my dawg, they did something together and kid of act like they are dateing. But my dawg won't be her BF, because she kind of annoyning and not really GF material. My friend just wants to bed her, but when she did something with him he told everyone. So I feel she wants to make him her BF so she can do stuff with him, and she won't look slutty.

Well here's the deal, so she still flirts with other guys. So many AFC are casing after her, but my friends is the only one she really show interest in beyond basic flirting because he's not a AFC.....now I come in....

Well I hanging out with her for the first time in a long while. She keeps making eye contact with when we eating with some kids. And I am like, I am going to run game on her. (Basically I am the first DJ that has made a move on her so far, and I am by far the best looking, and I know she finds me really attractive) So I run my game and she is going nuts all over me.(Paritically because I am not a AFC like everyone else.) She definately wants me she keeps telling everyone I am her BF and does kino like we are a couple. She says things like "we just made out everyone" even though we didn't, just doing the GF and BF role playing. (I role play as a master DJ though) Well then later she goes "If you give a me ride, somewhere, I will have sex with you...I haven't had sex in 6 weeks!" She said this in front of people, so I just playied if off like "Man when did you get so desperate? I don't want it if you are going to be that easy."(Now she wants me way more) Then when we get around my friend she is all over him, but when he leaves she's back to me. He's more needy around her, and he goes to her, I just sit and chill and she comes to me. I don't really get mad about I just play it cool. Because there are other women in the world I don't stress.

But here is what I am thinking she just wants to have sex, she wants a BF so it doesn't seem slutty and a kid won't go bragging around school.....I want sex, but I don't want a GF. How can I convay my itentions and have her trust I won't go bragging around to everyone. And what should I do when she goes to my friend, how should I play it. I am not sure if I should steal her, but is probably going to leave him on her own....so idk my feelings

What I think I might try when she acts like I am her BF, and if she says we made out again....I will be like "I though you wanted a relationship with someone that didn't brag to everyone? Now that's exactlly want you are doing. Now you see why I am not haveing sex with you?" What should I do about my friends, if I decide I want to out game him.

.....WHAT'S YOUR INPUT? Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AC/DC

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Ok, obviously this chick wants some d*ck. It's really obvious... and looks like she's on your nuts.

Good.

So keep teasing her until she can no longer resist, and have sex with her. And KEEP having sex with her. Hit over and over. Just agree with everything she says. Don't get involved if you don't want to. Just have sex with her. This girl is really stupid and easy; take advantage of it.

AND WRAP YOUR TOOL.
 

Taviii

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Originally posted by AC/DC
This girl is really stupid and easy; take advantage of it.
I agree with your advice, but here is another thing:
at least where I live (Romania, Europe) the girls that try to appear slutty really arent sluts. Its like they have d!ckphobia. And the girls that are nice are the wild ones.

There is a saying in the romanian language: The dog that barks doesnt bite (I dont know if this saying exists in english also), it really matches the girl-slut situation.
 

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I say don't give in. She's trying to manipulate you so she can chop off your nads (figuratively). Sure she's hot, but with the attitude that she gives you, you two will never had a quality LTR. She's the kind of HB10 that knows how to bait the men she wants with sex. You're a DJ, you know better. If you want to have sex with her, go ahead, but you're just putting yourself in a bad place. If you know Mystery Method, it's better to spend more time in A3, so she won't get buyer's remorse. Anyway, do what you want, but know that there are consequences no matter what you choose.

-Damian
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kpocalypse

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just a question, the same as the other guy. Is she also 14??? DAMN if she is. Slutty slutty slut.
 
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