"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I Need Some Experts Help.....HUGE!!!

cadilacone

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Here's the situation. There is this one HB10, well she just got a LTR(4 years), and now she's pretty all over the guys. She seems to love being single, and is flirting a ton and hanging out with tons of guys. She has a thing with one my dawg, they did something together and kid of act like they are dateing. But my dawg won't be her BF, because she kind of annoyning and not really GF material. My friend just wants to bed her, but when she did something with him he told everyone. So I feel she wants to make him her BF so she can do stuff with him, and she won't look slutty.

Well here's the deal, so she still flirts with other guys. So many AFC are casing after her, but my friends is the only one she really show interest in beyond basic flirting because he's not a AFC.....now I come in....

Well I hanging out with her for the first time in a long while. She keeps making eye contact with when we eating with some kids. And I am like, I am going to run game on her. (Basically I am the first DJ that has made a move on her so far, and I am by far the best looking, and I know she finds me really attractive) So I run my game and she is going nuts all over me.(Paritically because I am not a AFC like everyone else.) She definately wants me she keeps telling everyone I am her BF and does kino like we are a couple. She says things like "we just made out everyone" even though we didn't, just doing the GF and BF role playing. (I role play as a master DJ though) Well then later she goes "If you give a me ride, somewhere, I will have sex with you...I haven't had sex in 6 weeks!" She said this in front of people, so I just playied if off like "Man when did you get so desperate? I don't want it if you are going to be that easy."(Now she wants me way more) Then when we get around my friend she is all over him, but when he leaves she's back to me. He's more needy around her, and he goes to her, I just sit and chill and she comes to me. I don't really get mad about I just play it cool. Because there are other women in the world I don't stress.

But here is what I am thinking she just wants to have sex, she wants a BF so it doesn't seem slutty and a kid won't go bragging around school.....I want sex, but I don't want a GF. How can I convay my itentions and have her trust I won't go bragging around to everyone. And what should I do when she goes to my friend, how should I play it. I am not sure if I should steal her, but is probably going to leave him on her own....so idk my feelings

What I think I might try when she acts like I am her BF, and if she says we made out again....I will be like "I though you wanted a relationship with someone that didn't brag to everyone? Now that's exactlly want you are doing. Now you see why I am not haveing sex with you?" What should I do about my friends, if I decide I want to out game him.

.....WHAT'S YOUR INPUT? Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok, obviously this chick wants some d*ck. It's really obvious... and looks like she's on your nuts.

Good.

So keep teasing her until she can no longer resist, and have sex with her. And KEEP having sex with her. Hit over and over. Just agree with everything she says. Don't get involved if you don't want to. Just have sex with her. This girl is really stupid and easy; take advantage of it.

AND WRAP YOUR TOOL.
 

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Originally posted by AC/DC
This girl is really stupid and easy; take advantage of it.
I agree with your advice, but here is another thing:
at least where I live (Romania, Europe) the girls that try to appear slutty really arent sluts. Its like they have d!ckphobia. And the girls that are nice are the wild ones.

There is a saying in the romanian language: The dog that barks doesnt bite (I dont know if this saying exists in english also), it really matches the girl-slut situation.
 

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I say don't give in. She's trying to manipulate you so she can chop off your nads (figuratively). Sure she's hot, but with the attitude that she gives you, you two will never had a quality LTR. She's the kind of HB10 that knows how to bait the men she wants with sex. You're a DJ, you know better. If you want to have sex with her, go ahead, but you're just putting yourself in a bad place. If you know Mystery Method, it's better to spend more time in A3, so she won't get buyer's remorse. Anyway, do what you want, but know that there are consequences no matter what you choose.

-Damian
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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just a question, the same as the other guy. Is she also 14??? DAMN if she is. Slutty slutty slut.
 
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