"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok...so here is the story....i went on a date with this chick this Wednesday. It was fun and we were a laughing and then we made out like crazy. All in all, a good time. But yesterday, her "ex"boyfriend, who she told me is her ex, but im having doubts about sends me a message on myspace asking me whether me and her hooked up or not. Now i don't know whether I should just tell him, or talk about it with her first. what do you guys think?

help is highly appreciated..thanx
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How about something like "A gentleman doesn't talk about that kind of issues."? Cliché, I know. I'll explain.

Personally, if I was a girl I wouldn't like that my bf posted on a public space that we made out... Unless I was brad pitt. Lol.

Anyway, I don't think you have to worry about it. He may be jealous and that kind of stuff isn't your problem. Let him settle it with the girl, and if he gives her a hard time, talk to him. Thats what I would do. You don't have to explain to him, it's not his buisness.

But if it is her bf, I would next her. I wouldn't let her play me, and after that, I would loose touch with her. If she has a boyfriend and hooked up with you, she can do the same thing with you and hook with another dude.

My personal opinion.
 
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My advice, tell him to stop being a brown-noser in a respectful manner since IT IS NONE OF HIS BUSINESS. Don't give it a second thought.
 
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smackler said:
How about something like "A gentleman doesn't talk about that kind of issues."? Cliché, I know. I'll explain.

Personally, if I was a girl I wouldn't like that my bf posted on a public space that we made out... Unless I was brad pitt. Lol.

Anyway, I don't think you have to worry about it. He may be jealous and that kind of stuff isn't your problem. Let him settle it with the girl, and if he gives her a hard time, talk to him. Thats what I would do. You don't have to explain to him, it's not his buisness.

But if it is her bf, I would next her. I wouldn't let her play me, and after that, I would loose touch with her. If she has a boyfriend and hooked up with you, she can do the same thing with you and hook with another dude.

My personal opinion.
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i am agree with you ,u are correct saying .
Thanks
 
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