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ok...so here is the story....i went on a date with this chick this Wednesday. It was fun and we were a laughing and then we made out like crazy. All in all, a good time. But yesterday, her "ex"boyfriend, who she told me is her ex, but im having doubts about sends me a message on myspace asking me whether me and her hooked up or not. Now i don't know whether I should just tell him, or talk about it with her first. what do you guys think?

help is highly appreciated..thanx
 

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How about something like "A gentleman doesn't talk about that kind of issues."? Cliché, I know. I'll explain.

Personally, if I was a girl I wouldn't like that my bf posted on a public space that we made out... Unless I was brad pitt. Lol.

Anyway, I don't think you have to worry about it. He may be jealous and that kind of stuff isn't your problem. Let him settle it with the girl, and if he gives her a hard time, talk to him. Thats what I would do. You don't have to explain to him, it's not his buisness.

But if it is her bf, I would next her. I wouldn't let her play me, and after that, I would loose touch with her. If she has a boyfriend and hooked up with you, she can do the same thing with you and hook with another dude.

My personal opinion.
 
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My advice, tell him to stop being a brown-noser in a respectful manner since IT IS NONE OF HIS BUSINESS. Don't give it a second thought.
 
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smackler said:
How about something like "A gentleman doesn't talk about that kind of issues."? Cliché, I know. I'll explain.

Personally, if I was a girl I wouldn't like that my bf posted on a public space that we made out... Unless I was brad pitt. Lol.

Anyway, I don't think you have to worry about it. He may be jealous and that kind of stuff isn't your problem. Let him settle it with the girl, and if he gives her a hard time, talk to him. Thats what I would do. You don't have to explain to him, it's not his buisness.

But if it is her bf, I would next her. I wouldn't let her play me, and after that, I would loose touch with her. If she has a boyfriend and hooked up with you, she can do the same thing with you and hook with another dude.

My personal opinion.
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i am agree with you ,u are correct saying .
Thanks
 
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