"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ok...so here is the story....i went on a date with this chick this Wednesday. It was fun and we were a laughing and then we made out like crazy. All in all, a good time. But yesterday, her "ex"boyfriend, who she told me is her ex, but im having doubts about sends me a message on myspace asking me whether me and her hooked up or not. Now i don't know whether I should just tell him, or talk about it with her first. what do you guys think?

help is highly appreciated..thanx
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How about something like "A gentleman doesn't talk about that kind of issues."? Cliché, I know. I'll explain.

Personally, if I was a girl I wouldn't like that my bf posted on a public space that we made out... Unless I was brad pitt. Lol.

Anyway, I don't think you have to worry about it. He may be jealous and that kind of stuff isn't your problem. Let him settle it with the girl, and if he gives her a hard time, talk to him. Thats what I would do. You don't have to explain to him, it's not his buisness.

But if it is her bf, I would next her. I wouldn't let her play me, and after that, I would loose touch with her. If she has a boyfriend and hooked up with you, she can do the same thing with you and hook with another dude.

My personal opinion.
 

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My advice, tell him to stop being a brown-noser in a respectful manner since IT IS NONE OF HIS BUSINESS. Don't give it a second thought.
 

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smackler said:
How about something like "A gentleman doesn't talk about that kind of issues."? Cliché, I know. I'll explain.

Personally, if I was a girl I wouldn't like that my bf posted on a public space that we made out... Unless I was brad pitt. Lol.

Anyway, I don't think you have to worry about it. He may be jealous and that kind of stuff isn't your problem. Let him settle it with the girl, and if he gives her a hard time, talk to him. Thats what I would do. You don't have to explain to him, it's not his buisness.

But if it is her bf, I would next her. I wouldn't let her play me, and after that, I would loose touch with her. If she has a boyfriend and hooked up with you, she can do the same thing with you and hook with another dude.

My personal opinion.
i am agree with you ,u are correct saying .
Thanks
 
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