"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Alright guys I've totally been reading tons of this dj stuff, and its amazing. I'm just not sure how to handle this situation.
So here it is,
I met this blond girl who is showing a good deal of interest. We end up exchanging numbers ( I know I should have given her mine, im still a recovering afc) which is cool and all. But just a few hours later she is texting me. Now I'm a believer in the two day rule, so I haven't replied, but I'm not sure if I should just blow her off for 2 days because of her high interest level. Advice, comments?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The two day rule is crap. Who cares? Text her back when you feel like it. Just keep it playful and keep her wanting more. Then when you have her texting you back immediately after you send them tell her you gotta go. Two steps forward, one step back. Keep her guessing. Women love that kinda crap. LOL....
 
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The DJ advice is just to give you an idea of what you can do.

You have to internalize and use what you need from that information and do what you sense will work for you in each scenario you find yourself in.

This chick is exploding with high interest level for you and you've both basically just met and don't even know eachother well yet.

You should reply to her and talk for a little bit but make your main focus setting up a date.

Then find a way to cut short the conversation with some excuse as you want her to want to be in your presence to get to know you instead of doing it from afar across some messaging system.

Basically you don't want to run out of things to talk about when you're finally in eachother's presence.

If she eventually becomes your girl then you can talk to her with texts a bit longer at times if she really likes that sort of thing but whenever you get a sense her IL is dropping then you become scarce as scarcity creates value.

When you just meet a chick and act scarce she could get sent the wrong idea that you are not interested.
 
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