"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Alright guys I've totally been reading tons of this dj stuff, and its amazing. I'm just not sure how to handle this situation.
So here it is,
I met this blond girl who is showing a good deal of interest. We end up exchanging numbers ( I know I should have given her mine, im still a recovering afc) which is cool and all. But just a few hours later she is texting me. Now I'm a believer in the two day rule, so I haven't replied, but I'm not sure if I should just blow her off for 2 days because of her high interest level. Advice, comments?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The two day rule is crap. Who cares? Text her back when you feel like it. Just keep it playful and keep her wanting more. Then when you have her texting you back immediately after you send them tell her you gotta go. Two steps forward, one step back. Keep her guessing. Women love that kinda crap. LOL....
 
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The DJ advice is just to give you an idea of what you can do.

You have to internalize and use what you need from that information and do what you sense will work for you in each scenario you find yourself in.

This chick is exploding with high interest level for you and you've both basically just met and don't even know eachother well yet.

You should reply to her and talk for a little bit but make your main focus setting up a date.

Then find a way to cut short the conversation with some excuse as you want her to want to be in your presence to get to know you instead of doing it from afar across some messaging system.

Basically you don't want to run out of things to talk about when you're finally in eachother's presence.

If she eventually becomes your girl then you can talk to her with texts a bit longer at times if she really likes that sort of thing but whenever you get a sense her IL is dropping then you become scarce as scarcity creates value.

When you just meet a chick and act scarce she could get sent the wrong idea that you are not interested.
 
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