"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I Need Serious Help - Plz Help

CoRVeTTe6699

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im confused with everything thats happening right now. please take time out to read this and give me your opinion. i would appreciate it greatly..

theres this girl i met at college and she likes me and wanted a relationship with me. i didnt know if i wanted to stick with one girl, but i agreed to be her boyfriend. I was following the advice "do whatever u gotta do to get laid"...

this girl calls me every day, wants me to be with her every second. i tthink its beginning to be too much. i never even fcuked her yet. everything we did to each other was just with our hands so far... she is a hot girl with a hot body.. alot of guys want her...

theres a few girls that want to hang out with me who i had to reject cuz i was in this relationship. i dont know what to do, i feel like im missing out. but then again, they all might be bithces and ill be left with nothing

do i want to go dating girls and risk getting jerked around? or do i wanna stick with this girl who loves me and be stuck with one vagina in the prime time of my life. if i stick with her i'd definately get a buff and possibly have sex with her before the semester ends...

should i risk hanging out with other girls at college? if she finds out its probabaly over... help me .. please....


- confused college freshman
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheInfamousCBear

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Daaamn...Youre in college, just get at random girls, unless you really like this one girl...Also, you need to tell her to relax with all the contact, shes too clingy...
 

Levex

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so.....why dont you get her into bed?

Problem solved.
 

flexion_

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You agreed to be her boyfriend - which at least you have learned isn't the wisest thing when you haven't even had sex with her. Options:

1) break up her for other women and never look back.
2) tell her that you want a sexual relationship NOW and that you assumed that would be part of the boyfriend part and if she isn't ready for a sexual relationship then maybe you should have a non-exlusive relationship until such time as she is ready. The regular sex may change your thinking a bit too if you start getting it.
3) cheat.

Personally I'd pick the (1) option because she appears to be smothering you.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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this is quite simple to answer actually.

you are the problem not your gf. You havent gotten any from your gf but you still like her a lot, and there are other girls waiting for you and you wonder if to leave your gf since you havent gotten any.

you stated in your post that you want sex from your gf, so why do you keep waiting? why don't you act up on it? if she doesnt meet demands than you can go ahead and go for the other women. It is that simple, or are you going to wait for the apocalypse to hit before she feels like it?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DraGon_luv

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yeah dude ,, dont be to availible to her,,, even if she call you every day ,, try not to pick up the phone all the time,,



seems to me like shes your life and not enhanching it,,,,,


make some moves,,,, see how she acts??


are you even kissing her??

these other girl,,,

talk with them be friend with them,,

if your girl gets mad at you for that you dont want her anywayz.........
 
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