"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I Need Serious Help - Plz Help

CoRVeTTe6699

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im confused with everything thats happening right now. please take time out to read this and give me your opinion. i would appreciate it greatly..

theres this girl i met at college and she likes me and wanted a relationship with me. i didnt know if i wanted to stick with one girl, but i agreed to be her boyfriend. I was following the advice "do whatever u gotta do to get laid"...

this girl calls me every day, wants me to be with her every second. i tthink its beginning to be too much. i never even fcuked her yet. everything we did to each other was just with our hands so far... she is a hot girl with a hot body.. alot of guys want her...

theres a few girls that want to hang out with me who i had to reject cuz i was in this relationship. i dont know what to do, i feel like im missing out. but then again, they all might be bithces and ill be left with nothing

do i want to go dating girls and risk getting jerked around? or do i wanna stick with this girl who loves me and be stuck with one vagina in the prime time of my life. if i stick with her i'd definately get a buff and possibly have sex with her before the semester ends...

should i risk hanging out with other girls at college? if she finds out its probabaly over... help me .. please....


- confused college freshman
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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TheInfamousCBear

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Daaamn...Youre in college, just get at random girls, unless you really like this one girl...Also, you need to tell her to relax with all the contact, shes too clingy...
 

Levex

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so.....why dont you get her into bed?

Problem solved.
 

flexion_

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You agreed to be her boyfriend - which at least you have learned isn't the wisest thing when you haven't even had sex with her. Options:

1) break up her for other women and never look back.
2) tell her that you want a sexual relationship NOW and that you assumed that would be part of the boyfriend part and if she isn't ready for a sexual relationship then maybe you should have a non-exlusive relationship until such time as she is ready. The regular sex may change your thinking a bit too if you start getting it.
3) cheat.

Personally I'd pick the (1) option because she appears to be smothering you.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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this is quite simple to answer actually.

you are the problem not your gf. You havent gotten any from your gf but you still like her a lot, and there are other girls waiting for you and you wonder if to leave your gf since you havent gotten any.

you stated in your post that you want sex from your gf, so why do you keep waiting? why don't you act up on it? if she doesnt meet demands than you can go ahead and go for the other women. It is that simple, or are you going to wait for the apocalypse to hit before she feels like it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DraGon_luv

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yeah dude ,, dont be to availible to her,,, even if she call you every day ,, try not to pick up the phone all the time,,



seems to me like shes your life and not enhanching it,,,,,


make some moves,,,, see how she acts??


are you even kissing her??

these other girl,,,

talk with them be friend with them,,

if your girl gets mad at you for that you dont want her anywayz.........
 
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