"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I Need Money!!!!

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Since I'm fairly young, and I want a new car, I need a nice, steady way to earn money. And since you're all (mostly) intelligent people, I was hoping you guys could help me.

I currently work at Anchor Blue for minimum wage. This isn't cutting it. I'm in college 10am-2:15pm Mon-Thurs, otherwise I have good availability, and I have excellent computer and people skills.

I'm applying to work at a warehouse for $10 per hour, but I have 6 days to decide if I really want to do that. I need a good income at a decent part-time job. I'm completely obsessed with my next car, and I'll work like a maniac to get it in my driveway.

Any ideas? Options? My current checking account balance is $1083, not bad for fresh out of high school.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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-look into buying and selling on ebay (i don't do it personaly but i know some guys on here do)....
-toutoring (if your any good)
 
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If you want to make more money wait tables. Find a busy restaurant with moderate meal prices and get a job as a waiter. When I wait tables I average $25- $30 an hour. As a student, it's perfect because you can work less hours and make more money. Restaurnat managers are usually really good about working around student schedules, too.
 
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Yeah, sales of some sort.

Personally i'm a designer, and freelance for a number of crowds... getting waaay too much work.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
If you want to make more money wait tables. Find a busy restaurant with moderate meal prices and get a job as a waiter. When I wait tables I average $25- $30 an hour. As a student, it's perfect because you can work less hours and make more money. Restaurnat managers are usually really good about working around student schedules, too.
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lets name him some...
personally i made decent money at waffle house but i made no money at places like shoneys .
my friend worked at cracker barrell and only worked 4 days a week on that income.

another friend went to ruth chris (expensive) and worked three days a week and put herself thru school and she was a single mother of two at the time.
 
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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Sales. If you can get into car sales and fit it around your college schedule, do that. Or if joining an MLM is your thing (it's not really mine), do that.
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some people are naturally inclined to be in sales and its a gift. others of us couldnt sell fiber to the elderly haha.
 
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