"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I Need Money!!!!

AC/DC

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Since I'm fairly young, and I want a new car, I need a nice, steady way to earn money. And since you're all (mostly) intelligent people, I was hoping you guys could help me.

I currently work at Anchor Blue for minimum wage. This isn't cutting it. I'm in college 10am-2:15pm Mon-Thurs, otherwise I have good availability, and I have excellent computer and people skills.

I'm applying to work at a warehouse for $10 per hour, but I have 6 days to decide if I really want to do that. I need a good income at a decent part-time job. I'm completely obsessed with my next car, and I'll work like a maniac to get it in my driveway.

Any ideas? Options? My current checking account balance is $1083, not bad for fresh out of high school.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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-look into buying and selling on ebay (i don't do it personaly but i know some guys on here do)....
-toutoring (if your any good)
 

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If you want to make more money wait tables. Find a busy restaurant with moderate meal prices and get a job as a waiter. When I wait tables I average $25- $30 an hour. As a student, it's perfect because you can work less hours and make more money. Restaurnat managers are usually really good about working around student schedules, too.
 

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Yeah, sales of some sort.

Personally i'm a designer, and freelance for a number of crowds... getting waaay too much work.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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penkitten

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
If you want to make more money wait tables. Find a busy restaurant with moderate meal prices and get a job as a waiter. When I wait tables I average $25- $30 an hour. As a student, it's perfect because you can work less hours and make more money. Restaurnat managers are usually really good about working around student schedules, too.
lets name him some...
personally i made decent money at waffle house but i made no money at places like shoneys .
my friend worked at cracker barrell and only worked 4 days a week on that income.

another friend went to ruth chris (expensive) and worked three days a week and put herself thru school and she was a single mother of two at the time.
 

penkitten

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Sales. If you can get into car sales and fit it around your college schedule, do that. Or if joining an MLM is your thing (it's not really mine), do that.
some people are naturally inclined to be in sales and its a gift. others of us couldnt sell fiber to the elderly haha.
 
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