"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I need... lots of help...

shdw

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Ok, theres this Jesse from my kungfu school, shes cute but I asked her out and got turned down. so basically she didn't even talk to me for like a 8-9weeks-ish, well... cuz i overreacted x_x. Then I re-meet one of my old childhood friends, anna, I brought her to a class just to watch and then suddenly jesse starts actually talking to me without me actually trying to talk to her and her ignoring me, so during the 5minute break I sat right behind anna, then she goes like why are you sitting there?, me: "i dunno", anna: "sit next to me" something like that(i dont remember word for word). After all that we all go home, next day later I get on AIM cuz I was bored. Anna said like I used her to get that other girl and some birdy told her and I'm like wtf(all confused and stuff). And now jesse suddenly gives me a lot more attention right after that 8-9weeks of silence. Then... something happens and we don't really talk, she thinks im mad at her and I think shes mad at me technically now.(present)

This is all in the past, really, like in the november of 04. I'm just confused why she suddenly gives me all that attention. So, I need your help and tell me what do you see out of this little true story of mine, what are the possibilities of her suddenly talking to me, what the h3ll I'm doing wrong if theres anything wrong, and any possible advice for the future. Thanx :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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eggnawgkid

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Well it looks pretty obvious to me why Jesse started talking to you again. She saw your friend Anna as competition and realized that you're wanted by other girls. She may have been waiting because she thought she could have you whenever she wanted but when she saw your friend she knew she would have to work for you. People always want what they can't have.
 

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but... what if it were a coincidence that jesse decided to talk to me that day i brought anna? x_x wow... i confuse myself too much lol
 
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lmao...

it wasn't a coincidence. she saw you with another girl, she got jealous, simple. thats the way womens (and mens) minds work
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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