“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I need... lots of help...

shdw

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Ok, theres this Jesse from my kungfu school, shes cute but I asked her out and got turned down. so basically she didn't even talk to me for like a 8-9weeks-ish, well... cuz i overreacted x_x. Then I re-meet one of my old childhood friends, anna, I brought her to a class just to watch and then suddenly jesse starts actually talking to me without me actually trying to talk to her and her ignoring me, so during the 5minute break I sat right behind anna, then she goes like why are you sitting there?, me: "i dunno", anna: "sit next to me" something like that(i dont remember word for word). After all that we all go home, next day later I get on AIM cuz I was bored. Anna said like I used her to get that other girl and some birdy told her and I'm like wtf(all confused and stuff). And now jesse suddenly gives me a lot more attention right after that 8-9weeks of silence. Then... something happens and we don't really talk, she thinks im mad at her and I think shes mad at me technically now.(present)

This is all in the past, really, like in the november of 04. I'm just confused why she suddenly gives me all that attention. So, I need your help and tell me what do you see out of this little true story of mine, what are the possibilities of her suddenly talking to me, what the h3ll I'm doing wrong if theres anything wrong, and any possible advice for the future. Thanx :)
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

eggnawgkid

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Well it looks pretty obvious to me why Jesse started talking to you again. She saw your friend Anna as competition and realized that you're wanted by other girls. She may have been waiting because she thought she could have you whenever she wanted but when she saw your friend she knew she would have to work for you. People always want what they can't have.
 

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but... what if it were a coincidence that jesse decided to talk to me that day i brought anna? x_x wow... i confuse myself too much lol
 
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lmao...

it wasn't a coincidence. she saw you with another girl, she got jealous, simple. thats the way womens (and mens) minds work
 
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