"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I need... lots of help...

shdw

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Ok, theres this Jesse from my kungfu school, shes cute but I asked her out and got turned down. so basically she didn't even talk to me for like a 8-9weeks-ish, well... cuz i overreacted x_x. Then I re-meet one of my old childhood friends, anna, I brought her to a class just to watch and then suddenly jesse starts actually talking to me without me actually trying to talk to her and her ignoring me, so during the 5minute break I sat right behind anna, then she goes like why are you sitting there?, me: "i dunno", anna: "sit next to me" something like that(i dont remember word for word). After all that we all go home, next day later I get on AIM cuz I was bored. Anna said like I used her to get that other girl and some birdy told her and I'm like wtf(all confused and stuff). And now jesse suddenly gives me a lot more attention right after that 8-9weeks of silence. Then... something happens and we don't really talk, she thinks im mad at her and I think shes mad at me technically now.(present)

This is all in the past, really, like in the november of 04. I'm just confused why she suddenly gives me all that attention. So, I need your help and tell me what do you see out of this little true story of mine, what are the possibilities of her suddenly talking to me, what the h3ll I'm doing wrong if theres anything wrong, and any possible advice for the future. Thanx :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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eggnawgkid

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Well it looks pretty obvious to me why Jesse started talking to you again. She saw your friend Anna as competition and realized that you're wanted by other girls. She may have been waiting because she thought she could have you whenever she wanted but when she saw your friend she knew she would have to work for you. People always want what they can't have.
 

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but... what if it were a coincidence that jesse decided to talk to me that day i brought anna? x_x wow... i confuse myself too much lol
 
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lmao...

it wasn't a coincidence. she saw you with another girl, she got jealous, simple. thats the way womens (and mens) minds work
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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