"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm going to pick up this girl for our second date. We went out last SAturday night to a comnedy club and some club hopping and had a great time until 5am. At the end of the night I kissed her....but only on the cheek.

Tonight I'm taking her to see a movie and maybe for some pool afterwards. I'm feeling the pressure from what I've read here that I HAVE to kiss her tonight. Looks like it'll be make or break time when I drop her off. I'm just abit rusty and I don't want the timing to be messed up. What should I look for in order to help me decide whether or not to kiss her. Last time I dropped her off and we were both still in the car...should I get out and walk her to the front door this time? Let me know.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do NOT STRESS IT! That is important, but don't forgett it either. It should come NATURAL!! Build up sexual tension which is GREAT via playing pool because that can give alot of touching and kino.

Walking her to her door shows gentlemanship, depends on situation I prefer todo it...

The kissing should come natural as I said, look for her eyes and how they react, look after her looking at your lips at any time (several times preferably) that means she's thinking of and wanting to kiss you but that doesn't mean jump on her and shove tongue down her throat, it means, build up TENSION and THEN KISS!
 
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Yes - kiss standing up - much easer and natural for a kiss goodnight. Sitting down is awkward and clumsy in a car. Joke around in the movie and pretend like your yawning and put you arm around her and see how she responds - if she slips into u then a kiss good night is on the way. If he shys away then you may have problems.
 
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Yea, put your arm around her during the movie, or take her hand, the one you find the best for the moment. If she responds to it, you have all going well for the kiss. Dont think about it all night long. Also, if you are only going to kiss her when you are saying goodbye, both of you will be with some stress, so i sugest you to kiss her after the movie.

When you guys come out of the movie talking about the movie, once you get to some place a bit more quiet outside the cinema, just hold both her hands, give her a big smile, and kiss her. It will be a lot confortable for both of you this way, and after that both of you will be all smiling .)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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