"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm going to pick up this girl for our second date. We went out last SAturday night to a comnedy club and some club hopping and had a great time until 5am. At the end of the night I kissed her....but only on the cheek.

Tonight I'm taking her to see a movie and maybe for some pool afterwards. I'm feeling the pressure from what I've read here that I HAVE to kiss her tonight. Looks like it'll be make or break time when I drop her off. I'm just abit rusty and I don't want the timing to be messed up. What should I look for in order to help me decide whether or not to kiss her. Last time I dropped her off and we were both still in the car...should I get out and walk her to the front door this time? Let me know.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do NOT STRESS IT! That is important, but don't forgett it either. It should come NATURAL!! Build up sexual tension which is GREAT via playing pool because that can give alot of touching and kino.

Walking her to her door shows gentlemanship, depends on situation I prefer todo it...

The kissing should come natural as I said, look for her eyes and how they react, look after her looking at your lips at any time (several times preferably) that means she's thinking of and wanting to kiss you but that doesn't mean jump on her and shove tongue down her throat, it means, build up TENSION and THEN KISS!
 
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Yes - kiss standing up - much easer and natural for a kiss goodnight. Sitting down is awkward and clumsy in a car. Joke around in the movie and pretend like your yawning and put you arm around her and see how she responds - if she slips into u then a kiss good night is on the way. If he shys away then you may have problems.
 
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Yea, put your arm around her during the movie, or take her hand, the one you find the best for the moment. If she responds to it, you have all going well for the kiss. Dont think about it all night long. Also, if you are only going to kiss her when you are saying goodbye, both of you will be with some stress, so i sugest you to kiss her after the movie.

When you guys come out of the movie talking about the movie, once you get to some place a bit more quiet outside the cinema, just hold both her hands, give her a big smile, and kiss her. It will be a lot confortable for both of you this way, and after that both of you will be all smiling .)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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