"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I need her back!

toddC

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Okay, first off let me say this is a SLIGHT case of oneitis...Nothign tooo big but I'll explain completely..

For those who didn't see my previous posts on this girl, I'll take it from the top because I have nothing better to do tonight :).

Okay, it all started when my good friend's girlfriend decided to hook me up with one o fher friends. I was skeptical at first because I really don't like being setup but hey w/e I wanted ass. So first night we hung out we made out for a few hours yada yada yada..

Then winter break started. It started on a thursday and I was leaving friday. So thursday night we decided to hang out and I got the goodbye **** yada yada make out session.

Then while I was gone I made the mistake of texting her...which is when i first realized her losing the interest in me. Then I found out she got with some other dude while I was gone (whcih is ok because we weren't exclusive or anything). So she came clean to me and told me about it so I was cool with it.

Then I came back the day of new years eve. She IMed me online almost instantly and was like do i get a 12 oclock kiss. I was like only if u deserve it ;)...it ended up she did.

Then this is when I started realizing she was really starting to lose interst. She started bringin her friends when we hung and gave me liek 2 word answeres online...overall i could just pretty much tell.

So I pretty much started ignoring her which worked beautifully...she came crawling back and we made out for our final time (up to this point) 2 weekends ago.

Now last weekend we were supposed to hang but she couldnt go to my friends beach house so she went to some kids party where she got with yet another dude. Now this really didn't tick me off because i can honestly say i don't have that much interest in her anymore anyways...

Now this is why I NEED HER TO COME BACK TO ME:

I'm a VERY stubburn person when it comes to girls. If your not exactly what I'm looking for I leave you right there...kinda a bad trait but w/e...I need this girl to start wanting me so bad so that I can just turn her down so she feels like ****....How can I do this? I started ignoring her again this week at school. In fact today I didn't say 1 word to her at all. I usually see her at her locker once a day but I ignored her and she ended up like kinda punchin me when she was walkin away to get my attention...but yea how can i regain her interst and fast!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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toddC

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no, i have to lol. I mean I know shes still some what interested as she always trys to talk to me inschool but i kinda blow her off most of the time. But I just want her to BEG for me to come back.
 

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why are you devoting yourself to making somebody else unhappy?

you want to get a lot of women? build your reputation up as being a good, confident guy in general. making some random (albeit b!tchy) girl cry is not the way to do this. you know, you'll be a lot happier in life if you stop worrying about stupid crap that is just slowing you down.

focus that energy on something positive. this is just pathetic.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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toddC

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Okay, well obviously I'm working on other girls too...However I'm not going to lie I sitll like this chick. So at first I want her back to see where it goes and if it doesn't work out I then want to be th eone to end it.
 
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