"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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we are in same class with this girl. i really like her very much. and we have 10 classes together everyday. also we're good friends too. she shows big signs of interest to me. she laughs at all my jokes. she smiles when i'm talking to her or someone else. we always have direct eye contact, and we always smile at each other while talking. and i catched her staring at me at lessons several times. i'm a popular and a very ****y&funny guy at school also everyone loves me. i have many friends. i mean my social status is good. what happened is this, she's a boarder student and few days ago they had a trip. i made one of my friends talk to her about me. and yesterday i asked what happened on the trip. my friend said that she talked to her and what she said was i'm a nice guy she likes me as a friend but she wouldn't go out with me, she hadn't think of me as her boyfriend. i was shocked when i heard this because she showed great signs of interest. should i go for it and ask her out on christmas?? waiting for your advices. thanks a lot :)
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ok, lets get this party started....

She is in 10 of your classes and you still want to date her? i wouldnt date a girl that i saw this frequent because the chances of breakup are greater due to seeing her every second. Plus I would get busted flirting with other girls in every class.

You should steer away from having anyone "talk" to someone for you. With the way that the girl responded i bet the conversation went like this...

Friend:So would you ever go out with micon?

Her:<wtf?>uhhh, never really thought about....hes cool but i never thought about him like that.

She was probably uncomfortable with your friend asking her those questions, this isnt junior high man....just ask her yourself, girls actually like that better (trust me);)

What i would do, is forget completely what this girl has said and ask her for her number one day, its the only way youll know for sure...you miss 100% of the shots you dont take.

Ohiofutballa :cool:
 
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ohiofutballa, thank you very much. thanks everyone.
This is a classic case of denial. Reread what you typed, micon.
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i couldn't understand what you wanted to say. can you please be more descriptive.
 
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the friend zone. Classic.
Well read this quote and then realize your mistake.
"It's like D-day you're gone before even hitting the water."
In other words a friend you be a friend she sees.
Sorry man
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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