"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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hey. theres this girl that has been throwin these mixed messages at me, or so i think. like while we talk online, she tell me to download these slow songs and to listen to it with her. but then later that night, we never even talk at all. its like i dont even exist. its been like this for like a year now. and i'm getting so confused. every single time i fall for stuff like this. why is she sending me these songs and ****? i try to forget about her and look for other girls, but she just keeps coming back my mind. should i act like i dont want her or some****, i'm so confused its hurting,lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by surface1030
i try to forget about her and look for other girls, but she just keeps coming back my mind.
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This has been going on for a year?? What are you waiting for? For her to tell you she is madly in live with you? Be the initiator.. She's been dropping enough hints. If she rejects you, at least you'll know and you won't have spend any more time wondering what she means by all these mixed signals..
 
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harharhar
Jack the pirate says "Shes either 1. a tease, 2 a big tease, 3 or interested"



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make a move either way
 
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I always get screwed over by girls with mixed signals (well i always used to :D), just ask her out, you wont lose anything. As the man said shes either a big tease or she likes you
 
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Jesus, it's been like this for a year and you have not thought of one solution to figure this out?

ASK HER ON A DATE.

Yes - She's interested in you.
No - She isn't interested in you.

A year is A LOT of time to waste. All the time you spent thinking about this you could have been getting a nicer job or working out. Forget her interest level, figure out yours first. If you want her, go get her, if her interest level isn't as high as you hope it would be, drop her, move on, don't waste time. She is NOT going to ask you out on a date. She is NOT going to start the ball on the relationship. Call her up and say

"Hey I'm free Wendesday night at 7, let's go on a date to the movies."

Any other response besides

"Yes"

or

"I'm sorry I can't, but how about..."

means she is NOT interested. Figure things out man.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You young kids are lost in the wilderness!!! Quit being her 'online' monkey and only talk to her in person and only in a romantic vein - period!!! Quit being her online chat partner!!!!
 
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