oreo_renegade
Master Don Juan
Why the fuuck do you look at family members as "attractive" or "unattractive?"
That is sick in itself.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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That is sick in itself.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
HypnoHelp
Don Juan
Helllllooooooo, that is exactly what I am saying. BEFORe the hypnosis, I never even thought about that. But, after the hypnosis this is what has happened. It threw my whole brain off balance you see.
oreo_renegade
Master Don Juan
yeah, find a professional to explain to you teh difference between FAMILY and non-family.
I don't even look at my family as "male" or "female" I just look at them as BLOB and BLOB.
So there is no way in hell that I would wonder about "hmm should I approach my sister...?"
You need to get away from you family more, and find something to occupy your time, that way you wnt be able to think.
HypnoHelp
Don Juan
I dont think of approaching. The hypnosis just enabled myself to look at others this way, everyone. Even my family, and that is what hurts. I've been in isolation for months now. I try to get away from my family as much as possible. I am looking for professional help, but very poor. If you read the stupid long story, you would understand all the details. Nevermind, thanks.
Psycho`Sexual
Don Juan
It enables you to do something.
Nature enables me to have sex with my mother. Does this mean I am going to run out there and do so?
NO.
you have a WILLPOWER and only YOU are in control of yourself.
If you think something as stupid as a few lines of NLP can tunr you into a seducing zombie, then guess what. You are absolutely right.
You know why?
Because YOU THINK SO.
However you think, that is how you shall be. If you think you can just control your powers, then guess what?
YOU CAN CONTROL YOUR POWERS.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
HypnoHelp
Don Juan
I know, I've been through that. " You are what you think you are". But, I am terribly weak-minded. So everything jumps back and forth.
Have you Tried Dianetics ?? it changes the way you think, for the better, that is. i dont have the time to explain it in detail, but is is basicly erasing your unconcsios mind (they call it the reactive mind)
more info on www.Dianetics.com
(i am in no way affiliated with dianetics or any of its groups)
more info on www.Dianetics.com
(i am in no way affiliated with dianetics or any of its groups)
k_hectic
Don Juan
What you're describing has nothing to do with NLP and hypnosis in my opinion. This is OCD. Obsessive Compulsive thoughts that you can't resist repeating over and over in your mind. I have a mild OCD, and I found out that the easiest way to stop it is through distractions. You need to read about treatments for OCD and see what you can do about it.
There is a radical treatment to all mental illnesses including schitzofrenia, which is explained at gocure.com ; read it and see how you may benefit from it.
By the way, how did you induce the confidence and calm states? Did you use hypnosis tapes? What form of hypnosis was it exactly?
There is a radical treatment to all mental illnesses including schitzofrenia, which is explained at gocure.com ; read it and see how you may benefit from it.
By the way, how did you induce the confidence and calm states? Did you use hypnosis tapes? What form of hypnosis was it exactly?
You can sure the company for emotional damage if you haven't been identified with schitsophrenia(spelling) formally and IF THEY DIDN'T MENTION IT ON THE WEBSITE.
Other than that, I would assume that your final goal is to be happier, not to come back to your old life. Remember, you were miserable there too. That's why you bought hypnosis tapes.
And you are not quite right. The tapes didn't do their job actually. If you want "common" terms, the tapes gave your subconcious mind confidence, BUT they failed to condition your concious mind to accept your new state. Hence my hypothesis:
If you can change yourself to accept your new behaviour you will be very happy.
To actually think about it, you are a perfect being. You acnowledge the flaws of others, you don't really give a f1ck about rejection and peer pressure, you just do your thing.
Ain't that cool?
The only broblem now is that you SHOW disrespect to others. If you could hypnotize yourself to be a more "smooth" in your social interactions, you'll be happy.
A polite confident person is infinitely attractive.
So one of the solutions to make yourself happy is hypnotize yourself into being comfortable with your confident self.
Therefore, think about affirmations, and make up some centences:
I am happy and comfortable with my confident self
I like being confident
I accept other people having flaws, but my confident self will still treat them with respect because they are people.
Etc...
Reasonable?
Other than that, I would assume that your final goal is to be happier, not to come back to your old life. Remember, you were miserable there too. That's why you bought hypnosis tapes.
And you are not quite right. The tapes didn't do their job actually. If you want "common" terms, the tapes gave your subconcious mind confidence, BUT they failed to condition your concious mind to accept your new state. Hence my hypothesis:
If you can change yourself to accept your new behaviour you will be very happy.
To actually think about it, you are a perfect being. You acnowledge the flaws of others, you don't really give a f1ck about rejection and peer pressure, you just do your thing.
Ain't that cool?The only broblem now is that you SHOW disrespect to others. If you could hypnotize yourself to be a more "smooth" in your social interactions, you'll be happy.
A polite confident person is infinitely attractive.
So one of the solutions to make yourself happy is hypnotize yourself into being comfortable with your confident self.
Therefore, think about affirmations, and make up some centences:
I am happy and comfortable with my confident self
I like being confident
I accept other people having flaws, but my confident self will still treat them with respect because they are people.
Etc...
Reasonable?
legolas
Master Don Juan
Pffffft, yeah right!!!
Scientology? Forget about it
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
k_hectic
Don Juan
Again, I'd like to know:
how did you induce the confidence and calm states? Did you use hypnosis tapes? What form of hypnosis was it exactly?
how did you induce the confidence and calm states? Did you use hypnosis tapes? What form of hypnosis was it exactly?
PatrickBateman
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YOU NEED HELP
Do you understand what cause-effect pattern is? (X causes Y) or complex equivalent? (X is the same as Y)
hypnosis caused ......... NLP caused..............
I am a .......... so therefore.............
these are beliefs and presuppositions that you are using in your posts.
read this site www.geocities.com/bandlertrial that should tell you about NLP.
aside from that you need to **** all that NLP **** off, and get laid by the fattest ugliest ***** you can find.
Do you understand what cause-effect pattern is? (X causes Y) or complex equivalent? (X is the same as Y)
hypnosis caused ......... NLP caused..............
I am a .......... so therefore.............
these are beliefs and presuppositions that you are using in your posts.
read this site www.geocities.com/bandlertrial that should tell you about NLP.
aside from that you need to **** all that NLP **** off, and get laid by the fattest ugliest ***** you can find.