"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I Need Help With A Hip Hop Song!!!!

Juan_Man

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Please help.

This was a hip hop song that was pretty popular around 1998 or 1999 but I can't really describe the beat online. The beat goes something like na, na-na-na-na, na-na-na-na-nunna. There is a repeated line at the end that goes either something like "It's the S-W-A-P" or "It's the S-W-E-V" or "It's the S-W-E-P" but I'm not sure what the actual acronym is. If you know what the song is, please let me know plus the name of the artist. Thanks in advance.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Juan_Man

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Nope. I just heard 'Got Tha Feelin' on youtube.com and it's not the song. I think the group I'm referring to was sort of a one-hit wonder. Thanks for the help, though.
 

KillaCam

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stonedface said:
Ini Kamoze - Here comes the hotstepper?
That's exactly the song i'm thinking.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Skilla_Staz

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EXCUUUSE me mr officer! MURRRDERRRER
 

Juan_Man

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Nigga really spent 15 years asking around, scouring the web, leaving no stone unturned to find this song. Respect.
It actually took me over 20 years to find.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Nigga really spent 15 years asking around, scouring the web, leaving no stone unturned to find this song. Respect.
That was actually a funny fvcking moment. Creates the thread in 2006 and comes back with the song in 2021. Good moment.

Juan Ma ¡eres de puta madre macho!
 
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